why read sexual health books with me?

I love learning and growing with other like-minded people, it’s a lot more fun that way! When I was studying Clinical Sexology and Coaching, I was reading books with my peers every month and looking forward to our discussions, and every single book we read informed the kind of coach and person I am today. We will read books with topics such as:

• Sexual Health

• Peri/menopause

• Body Image

• BDSM

• Tantra

• Sex & Disability

• Sex skills/technique

• Relationships

• and more!

WHAT THIS MEANS FOR YOU

Like I said before, learning is a lot more fun when we do it together. I hope someday we will also have a meet up in person!

We will choose a non-fiction book within the above topics each month, and during the conversation at the end of it we can discuss:

• What intrigued you?

• What left you cold?

• What did it inspire, ignite or inform while you were reading?

• Did reading this book create enough excitement to test out skills or tools you learned along the way?

• What do you want to try, discuss, or understand more deeply, with expert education and guidance?

• What surprised you, about the content or yourself?

• How do you bring up something you read that you’d like to try with a partner?

• and more!

I am doing this for all of us that love to keep learning and I’m excited to discuss all things sexual health, pleasure and relationships with you! I want to create a space that can build community and chat about the things in this realm that are important to us. I think having science-backed, pleasure-forward education and guidance makes a huge difference in how we view our desires, our shame, and our fears when it comes to sex and intimacy. Let’s learn and grow together!

HOW TO JOIN

Follow me on Instagram to vote on the book of the month and get all the details! Our first month should be May 2026.

I also have another bookclub happening, a spicy romance club that reads romance and erotica.

• Get curious about what turns you on by reading spicy romance! We will vote on a spicy book each month.

• You have the opportunity to ask questions during the read and in the final chat at the end of the month about what we read that you might want to try, or to understand better. Romance can be eye-opening! It also can skip some really important stuff to get you to the action in the book faster, so we can make sure anything you want to try is well-informed and rooted in reality!

• Explore new themes and get curious reading outside your norm. Books will be diversely selected and may have LGBTQ+ characters/content, as well as representation for chronically ill and disabled folks in some selections. Black and BIPOC voices always included. Reading broadly is beautiful! Every book will have delicious spice and stories that explore ALLLL the tropes!

• Spicy romance allows you to fantasize and safely play within scenarios you’d never do in reality. Fantasies are FUN and highly encouraged!

• Romance and erotica can give you language for things you’ve thought or felt but couldn’t put into words. Let the experts do it for you! All types of books are inspiring, and I’ve found a lot of inspiration in romance books!

You can check out the information on that group here: