Connect to your body, your partners, and your pleasure, at every stage of life
sexual literacy with niki
1:1 Coaching
Personalized sessions tailored to your unique desires, goals, and abilities
Science-backed, pleasured-focused education and skills building
workshops
Explore in-person and online live workshops
Learn at your own pace with pre-recorded webinars
sex & relationship
Coaching
Creating a plan that works for you
Sex coaching closes the gap between where you are now and where you want to be, sexually and relationally.
Through personalized coaching, we will get clear on what you really want, and create a plan for how to get there. Coaching with me is non-judgemental and shame-free. You can bring your whole self to the session knowing you will be supported and encouraged every step of the way. You may experience anything from low or no libido, painful sex, erectile unpredictability, really anything that affects you sexually. I provide the education, exercises and skill-building, and we will find ways to apply it that actually work for you.
You may be ready for coaching if one or more of these things ring true for you:
You’ve circled the same issues for months or years and haven’t been able to shift the dynamic no matter what you try
You freeze up when you try to ask for what you want, or your requests don’t land the way you intend them to
You want the education you never got in school about sex, intimacy, your body, and relationships
Something has shifted in your sexual interests, desires, or concerns and you’re not sure what to do about it
Your access needs have shifted, whether it’s from childbirth, trauma, chronic pain, or age-related changes
I welcome you to book a free consultation call to see if we are a good fit to work together. I’m not here to give you a sales pitch, our 20 minute call is so that I learn about what you are hoping to work on in sessions and I can answer questions you may have about this process. I work with clients of all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures, in all stages of life. I have additional experience and expertise working with clients with chronic pain, chronic illness, and disabilities. My work with the 2SLGBTQIA+ community includes direct knowledge and support for trans, non-binary and intersex clients.
Sex education
knowledge and skills-building
Very few of us got the sex education that we deserved or needed when we were younger, and that means so many of us have gaps in our knowledge when it comes to sex, intimacy and relationships. If you would like to arrange a private education session for yourself or a group, I am available for personally tailored online and in-person events and workshops.
Embodied practices, skills-building, and deep-dives into your particular interests, personalized sex education can help you distil down the relevant information you need to nurture your most fulfilling and pleasurable sex life.
Check out the Services section to find my pre-recorded and live online and in-person workshops and webinars.
BOOK CLUBS
satisfy your curiosity and spark your libido
My entire life changed because of spicy romance books… for real! (check out the Book Clubs section for more info on that!)
Partially because of this, I’ve created totally free-to-join book clubs for anyone who wants to join me in reading spicy romances and erotica, and another one for sexual health and relationships.
Spicy Romance book club will take place every month, beginning May 2026. We will read the spicy book selection and during discussion at the end of the month we can talk about the usual book club stuff AND I can answer any questions you might have along the way. More details on how to try something new, safely and with guidance. How to communicate a new interest or fantasy with a partner. How to work with unexpected feelings, curiosities or fears. Whatever questions you have, this is the place to ask them.
Sexual health book club will take place every second month, beginning in June 2026, with a similar process! Join me on Instagram to find out when the next book voting starts for both groups!
Book clubs will remain free, and while I am very happy to support anyone 1:1 in private coaching after the fact if you want to go deeper, you’ll not be given sales pitches during book club. This is a space for me to give back in a way that lights me up.
Reading in community, and sharing in a group, can be a really beautiful, expansive experience. I hope you’ll join me!